Where are they looking?

Those who can’t be present are present else where

Those who can’t take responsibility are already heavily responsible, secretly

Those who can’t focus are focused on something deeper

Those who cannot concentrate are concentrating on what demands them too

Those who cannot be in a relationship in the present are deeply in another relationship in the past

Those who cannot love are in another, secret love

If we demand that they take on the tasks we wish them to do, we are asking them to turn away from what they cannot turn away.

If we find who or what it is that they are engaged with and that is engaged with them, acknowledge and give it the movement it desires, a change may occur that can bring new possibilities.