Those who can’t be present are present else where
Those who can’t take responsibility are already heavily responsible, secretly
Those who can’t focus are focused on something deeper
Those who cannot concentrate are concentrating on what demands them too
Those who cannot be in a relationship in the present are deeply in another relationship in the past
Those who cannot love are in another, secret love
If we demand that they take on the tasks we wish them to do, we are asking them to turn away from what they cannot turn away.
If we find who or what it is that they are engaged with and that is engaged with them, acknowledge and give it the movement it desires, a change may occur that can bring new possibilities.